Imagine the strain being put on a person's family when one is drawn into the world of drug and alcohol addiction. The mother, the father, the wife, the husband, the son, the daughter are all suffering as is the addict. Addiction is not only a problem for the individual but for everyone around the individual as well. One cannot think of the problem as only a problem for himself or herself. I still remember the pain my mother, father, brother, and other relatives went through. They wouldn't allow me at family reunions. They wouldn't allow me in their homes. They changed the locks and stopped accepting my phone calls. Then they started looking for successful
drugs rehabilitation programs for me. I fought them at first, choosing to live out of a car rather than ask for their help. I wouldn't give in. It pained them as much as it pained me. After several months of living this way I finally gave in and accepted their help. I went to a rehabilitation program and my life has been great since.
I no longer hang around with people who are constantly looking for a chance to steal my stuff. I actually have money to purchase the items that I want to purchase. I have a life finally. This is something I didn't have for many years. I looked into 12 step only to be scared away by having to surrender myself to something greater than myself. I always knew that I had the power and there was no way I was going to surrender that. Finally I found a program that worked for me and my life changed for the better. I am so happy I did so. Drug rehabilitation is great.